In order to add productively to any conversation, it's important to think before you speak.You should also use empathy, avoid using"drama language," and listen fully before chiming in.I told my 6-year-old son, Liam, earlier this week. I immediately regretted saying it as it's often a generic phrase that parents give their kids when they say something rude, and I know I didn't like hearing it when I was young.
Over the last week, I've been trying to better answer Liam's question by collecting questions smart people ask themselves before they speak. Here are five we can all use.Some arguments are necessary to have in the moment, but a lot aren't — and the angrier or more stressed we become, the more our communication skills worsen.
We all have things going on in our personal and professional lives that aren't always obvious to others. Young explained that when it comes to communication, we must always assume there's more to understand than what's being said. Maybe the missed deadline isn't due to incompetence — maybe their childcare collapsed during the pandemic and they're five times busier than they used to be.
ForgeMag 聪明人说话前要问自己5个问题（ForgeMag）
ForgeMag Often I stay quiet, exactly because I think that much…. And I really regret …