Did you know that using your hands properly while communicating can increase the effectiveness of your message by up to? This is just one example of how we can communicate without using spoken words. In fact, before the spoken word existed, our ancestors communicated effectively using a language that is important even today. Body language.describes body language as a “silent orchestra.
Throughout the video, Harris’ hand gestures appear intentional and connected to her words and are therefore quite effective. By the way, Harris also creates a distinct “signature” by always wearing pearls as she shares her now famous “pearls of wisdom.” Another great tactic.Oprah Winfrey wins the prize for best eye contact. Eye contact connects you to the listener and makes them feel you’re speakingthem. But there is a nuance to eye contact.
First, think about carrying yourself in a way that takes up space - like a peacock that fans its feathers or a cobra that expands its neck. Taking up space makes you seem more important, more formidable, more like an expert. Conversely, postures that make you smaller diminish your impact. Avoid folding your arms across your chest or slouching; that makes you appear small and closed off, which creates a barrier with your audience.
One easy option is to assume a version of the Wonder Woman pose - legs slightly apart, shoulders back and hands confidently on your hips or in your pockets. This will not only make you appear confident, but it will also help level the height imbalance many women feel when surrounded by men and will give you a feeling of power. Beyoncé and Reese Witherspoon have nailed that pose!Body language is just as important as what you say when it comes to effective communications.